Family Predators: What You Can Do, Part 8

Throughout my series on Family Predators, I've talked about family predator culture and its impact on one's personal life. In today's final post of the series, I want to look beyond survival and escaping to changing the story. In previous posts I said I stopped enabling family predator culture in my life by confronting my …

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Family Predators: It Stops with You, Series Part 6

In part four of this series, Family Predators, I talked about why it is hard it is to walk away from family predator culture. However, I know quite a few people who have done it, including myself, and with my friends' permission, I would like to share why and how we walked away. For a …

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Family Predators: Why It is Hard to Just Walk Away, Series Part 4

I think it is really important to understand why it is so hard to walk away from families who protect predators and have a culture of abuse and perversion, not just to explain it to people who have never been in a family that protected predators but for those who have. I have spoken with …

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Family Predators: And then What?, Series Part 3

Yesterday I posted about my experience with a family predator and how it made me an easy target later in life. I've been asked what happened to the uncle and to the coach. "So what happened to the uncle and coach?" I didn't sleep with the coach. He moved away, and I have no idea …

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