Defined by God, Not Humans

Yesterday on my Facebook page I shared a meme about the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional or abusive home on the ability to make decisions, even small ones. With that meme, I also shared two things I have personally used to overcome decision paralysis because it is a very common struggle for folks. …

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What is Your Name: Who Has the Right to Decide

Last week I finished the series on Family Predators and left Friday hanging with a post asking, "What is Your Name?" In that post I said, "Your name isn’t what people call you. Your name is what you live into. What is your name?" In that moment I was thinking of my name and the …

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Family Predators Create Easy Targets: My Story, Series Part 2

When I was growing up, there was an uncle that made comments on my body. When I started to go through puberty, he often remarked on how much I had "filled out" since the last time I saw him. He made said things like I'd need a bigger bra if I kept growing at this …

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