Throughout my series on Family Predators, I've talked about family predator culture and its impact on one's personal life. In today's final post of the series, I want to look beyond survival and escaping to changing the story. In previous posts I said I stopped enabling family predator culture in my life by confronting my …
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Family Predators: Things I Want You to Know, Part 7
For more than a week I have been discussing the family predator culture, how it continues, how to heal, why people leave. I have shared part of my story and other people's stories, but today I want to talk about your story. If you are a victim of the predator victim culture, there are things …
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Family Predators: How Did You Heal?, Series Part 5
I have considered not writing this because I don't want to oversimplify this subject. I have written from my experience, and I know others who have hell stories because of their family's predators--yes, sometimes more than one--and their family protecting those predators. I want to respect their stories and their healing journeys which are more …
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Stopping Family Predators, part 1
If you want to stop sexual abuse against children, start in your families. I am not talking about stranger danger. I mean start with the predators in your own family. You know the ones I'm talking about. The uncle no one wants to be around.The grandfather that girls try to avoid.The cousin that gives a lot …
The Crash and How to Handle It
Earlier today I was talking to a friend about the day to day life of following Christ and how one day we can be on a mountain top and the next day we are scraping the bottom of the barrel. I laughed and said, "Who needs a whole day? I can be praising Jesus at …
Treasure Room Life
Treasure Room Life by Jerri Kelley When my late husband died, my friend Sally Daniels, also a counselor, told me the kids would experience the grief every time they went through a new developmental stage because they would reprocess it in their new ability, emotional needs, and understanding. I am so glad she told me …
A Good Long Day
Today has been a mentally long day. I have a lot of those right now. Anyone who has ever dealt with the death of a loved one and addressed the vast estate issues can testify to having several of those days. Right now, my temptation is to plop down on my couch and stare blankly …
The After…and Before
5 months. That is how long it has been since I posted last. On February 18th I posted a blog entitled “Changes”. I talked about the boxes and striking a balance between preparing to leave while still needing to be in the space. I shared the discomfort of all the things I didn’t know and …
Changes
I am moving. My house is decorated with boxes splashed with fat sharpie letters, some blue, some red. Some boxes are taped closed, and some are still open with mouths waiting for more to eat. And I have been walking the fine line of packing enough to make progress while leaving enough for it to …
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